The
Subjugator and the Oppressed
by:
Erin Pembroke
3/01/13
There
are professions that oppress more than others, especially that of stripping and
prostitution. These occupations exploit women either indirectly by their
consent or directly against their will. In these two jobs, there are two kinds
of women; the oppressed and the one that over-comes being oppressed.
To begin with, the occupation of stripping
indirectly oppresses women by capital means. When women enter an agreement with
the strip-club owner and with the customers for money, they become addicted to
the amount of capital they make per night. Most jobs cannot compete with the
substantial amount that strippers make, thus, some strippers stop looking for
other employment and solely rely on their profession. These women become bound
by their job and enslaved by the money.
They work hard for their money and at odd
hours, just to be enslaved by their addiction of making an ever flowing amount
of cash that allows them to gain many materialistic objects. In other words,
the strippers represent the concept of operant conditioning by B.F. Skinner
where the cash becomes the positive reinforcement to their addiction or operant
behavior. The strippers keep seeing that their actions have worked before and
they were awarded for it by capital means and will keep stripping so long as
they are awarded by a great amount of money.
Strippers are also imprisoned by their
appearances or how they appear to others; one can witness that strippers
constantly apply make-up on their faces several times in one full day and must
appear to look beautiful at every given moment on a 24-hour clock. They are
afraid to publicly go “natural” or without make-up. They are afraid to show
their true selves. They are afraid of their natural physical flaws and must
cover them up.
They are confined by how men view them.
They are tethered by the natural beauty of other women they deem more beautiful
than themselves. They are simply oppressed; chained by beauty and appearance
that they appear vain and shallow. Everything is superficial about their
appearance because in their occupation, they must learn to be shallow and give
and fit all the fantasies of every man they come in contact with or are around.
Unlike strippers, prostitutes are
different. They sell their bodies because they desperately need the cash. They
are less bound by addiction of money because the money is their source of food
and housing. A prostitute can be bound by appearance but perhaps less than a
stripper. A prostitute's goal is to appear beautiful to get their client so
that they can do their job and leave. They seldom get lost or invited to
parties and other social events that strippers go to.
Dissimilar to strippers, prostitutes are
directly and more-so shackled by men that repress them. Most of their clients
and their client's behaviors are shady. The prostitutes can be tied to men with
abusive, violent behavior or may not even know what she is getting into until
the last minute. Thus, they are oppressed from liberty and freedom of
expression as well. These men may beat, abuse, misuse and kill prostitutes.
Some prostitutes feel repressed from going to the police and others feel they
cannot lead safe lives.
As men use their bodies for their own
gratification, these women feel that they are only men's play toys and nothing
more. Their self-worth and confidence diminishes and they become broken. They
become emotionally damaged. The more they seek money, the more they receive men
of worthless substance and rely on those men as “sugar-daddies” to take care of
their financial means.
Unfortunately, sometimes strippers can
become prostitutes. For instance, when the strip-clubs that the stripper works
at are not doing financially well and her options become limited, she might
turn to prostitution as a second source of income. She may do this for many
reasons such as: not saving money and running out of funds, having a large
amount of debt that accumulated by her expensive materialistic tastes, and
lastly, having a child that she cannot continue to support by such means.
In elaborate continuation of this topic,
there are two types of women in these professions; one that becomes oppressed
and the other that over-come subjugation. In witnessing one account of each, I
will now contrast these two kinds of women. The oppressed allows factors such
as addiction to making money, gaining material wealth, appearance and men to
continue to subjugate them.
They forget their real goals and get lose
in the muddled illusions and details. They get lost in what their lives at the
moment provide for them, whether they are parties or food on the table. They
get lost in the operant conditioning and positive reinforcement. They think their
lives will always be like this and do not plan for the future nor make any
changes. Women in these occupations accept where they are at or get too
comfortable in their jobs.
Whereas, the once subjugated women in
these professions are enslaved by several means, becomes the subjugator of the
situation and of their lives. These women may have had a goal and never forgot
their purpose. They worked to full-fill their purpose and once it was
accomplished, they simply stood up to the tyranny and left the situation.
Another instance could have been that they saved up their money before having a
lack of it (and while being pulled into different directions or different
oppressors), finally realized that they have had enough of being restrained by
several different means. Ergo, they left their occupation and their oppressors.
They could have also coped with their
subjugators (with money saved) by continuously isolating themselves (such as
staying home and not making an income or disassociating oneself) away from all
the things that chained them. Thus, their isolation became a negative
reinforcement against their oppressors which lead to the extinction of their
behavior in relying on their subjugators for monetary means or as a way of
living and the extinction of their occupation.
The subjected stay emotionally broken in
their old occupations and become severely damaged. They repeat old patterns and
behaviors. Contrary, the newly freed woman breaks all ties and starts a new
career or goes back to school. There is a new sense of hope for his kind of
woman. She can begin to repair what has been damaged when in her previous
state, if she was damaged. In contrast, the other type of woman will go on living
a dehumanized version of herself and a dehumanized life that will continue to
break her.
To conclude, women in the occupations of
stripping and prostitution can be held captive by money, appearances, and men.
Several may turn for help in the wrong places and seek other sources of income.
Some women may continue to be subjugated whereas others over-come their
oppressors and lead new lives. The choice is theirs whether to face their
oppressor or to continue to be the oppressed.
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